We all need connection and joy to get through the winter season, especially with the temperatures dropping and the days getting shorter.

Now is the perfect time to invite friends over to eat, catch up, share, and laugh together.

If you don’t know where to start, focus on these key categories to organize and plan a memorable winter get-together.

Theme

Offering some parameters to your guests will help them feel more at ease and confident about what to expect. There is nothing wrong with a general dinner party, but if you want to reduce decision fatigue and maximize comfort, suggest that everyone come in a flannel shirt or their favorite sweater.

Decor

Lighting is key for setting the tone for a cozy party. Turn off any harsh or fluorescent lighting, switch on your table lamps, and then add candles for extra warmth and glow. You could even tack up a string of fairy lights if the mood strikes you. Also, if you are lucky enough to have a fireplace, now is the perfect time to get a blaze going. And if you don’t, a fireplace video on the television will radiate cozy vibes even if it’s not producing heat.

Soundtrack

Another way to build ambience is by playing music. (As a bonus, it also thwarts the dreaded awkward silence.) Consider what atmosphere you are trying to create when choosing your playlist. Do you want guests to have deep conversations, or do you want to encourage dancing? For the former, consider quietly playing some mellow indie folk tunes or light and easy French pop for a more European attitude. To get partygoers on the dance floor, try a mix of Motown, hip-hop, and popular dance tracks.

Food

Nothing says “winter food” like steaming-hot bowls of soup or chili. You could go a step further by introducing a more specific motif like “international cuisine” featuring dishes from other cultures. Or make it a night of hors d’oeuvres and offer tiny bites and cheese plates. Then, for a cozy nightcap, provide hot chocolate and mini marshmallows for your guests. (Just be sure to take note of any food allergies or restrictions so everyone can partake in the feast.)

Most importantly, be a welcoming host, introduce guests to each other, and be ready to draw any stragglers into the conversation so everyone feels included. Happy gathering!